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****************************************************************** * +------------------------------------------------------------+ * * | I N T I M A C Y | * * | | * * | The Relationship Report | * * | | * * | | * * | ELIZABETH TAYLOR | * * | | * * | RICHARD BURTON | * * | | * * | | * * | Copyright (c) 1987-1993 Widening Horizons, Inc. | * * +------------------------------------------------------------+ * ****************************************************************** U N D E R S T A N D I N G E A C H O T H E R -- A N D T H I S R E L A T I O N S H I P People form relationships for many reasons. Sometimes, they fall in love or find someone they admire. Sometimes, they want to make someone else happy or want to add interest and adventure to their lives. Very close relationships form when people enjoy the pleasure of each other's company enough to want to share their lives. Relationships, of course, are ever changing. They shift and evolve as the individuals in the relationship grow and get to know one another on a deeper level. No matter how good a relationship becomes, it can get even better when the two people learn to accept and love each other just as they are. As you continue to broaden your understanding of each other, Elizabeth and Richard, you're likely to enjoy an increasing acceptance and affection for one another. This profile can help you gain some of that understanding by clarifying your personal characteristics and motivations. It will give you a picture of the kind of individuals you are and, at the same time, explore the dynamics involved in your relationship. The descriptions in the profile are based on the science of numerology. - 1 - H O W T H E T W O O F Y O U G E T O N W I T H O T H E R P E O P L E --- A N D E A C H O T H E R YOUR ADAPTABILITY ELIZABETH: Much of the time, your strong personality along with the forceful pursuit of your interests contribute to your important leadership potential. These significant traits, though, often interfere with your ability to be adaptable. Since you usually have such a clear picture of the best way to take care of a given situation, it isn't always easy for you to appreciate others' needs or to change your approach to satisfy those desires. Sometimes, though, when you're feeling particularly close to friends or family, you're willing to adjust your plans so that others can get their needs met. At these times, you're willing to put much more effort into finding out what will prove helpful to other people. RICHARD: You can be flexible at times. When your own needs are involved, though, you often concentrate on yourself. When your needs are strong, it may not be as easy as you would like to reach satisfying accommodations with others. Close friends, particularly, may be puzzled by these lapses. On the other hand, when your own needs are fulfilled and you're aware of others' desires, you often change your actions to allow other people considerable leeway. ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: As you probably know, Richard, things go reasonably well when you're accommodating. If you find somewhat more argument and discussion in your life than you want, though, it may be worth stretching a bit so that you're flexible more of the time. Elizabeth, in particular, will be most appreciative of your increased adaptability. Spend the necessary time taking care of your strong needs but try not to lose sight of others' needs while working on your own. Since you can be flexible at times, Elizabeth, you already have a foundation on which to develop additional adaptability. If you can be somewhat more accommodating with those you hold close -- for instance, when some of your lesser desires are involved -- you may be surprised at the difference it makes. When you make an - 2 - effort to understand where others are coming from, you're more likely to adapt to meet needs other than your own. You may find that you run into a lot less in the way of confrontation when you do that. When you combine this increased flexibility in approach with your strong personality, there's likely to be a considerable improvement in your ability to relate to others -- most importantly Richard. YOUR SOCIABILITY ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: The two of you have a need for socializing that goes from one end of the spectrum to the other. Most of the time, though, you can plan your socializing with a minimum of problems. You both sometimes delight in people -- parties, get-togethers or small gatherings -- but you may also want to spend a part of your time with only one or two close friends. At times when either of you feels somewhat reserved, you may prefer to keep your feelings to yourself so as not to be misunderstood. On occasion, too, you may both prefer to see few people and attend few gatherings. As long as you can each make it clear to the other when it's important to spend time by yourself, the two of you can probably make comfortable arrangements. Friends may not always understand how strong your needs are, at these times, to be left completely alone. ********** H O W T H E T W O O F Y O U G E T A L O N G E M O T I O N A L L Y A N D S E X U A L L Y YOUR SENSITIVITY TO YOUR OWN AND EACH OTHERS' FEELINGS ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: Your sensitivities can often be of help to each of you. At times, you both have a good sense of your own feelings and can be perceptive enough to pick up on other people's feelings, too. You can sense when people's moods change and can adjust your own approach to take those changes into account. - 3 - On occasion, though, when one or the other of you share your insights and find that your views aren't accepted, you may feel hurt or resentful. When this happens, you may want to do some inner searching to get a better understanding of yourself. Until you get to know this area better, you may choose to play down your sensitivity so that you feel less vulnerable. At those times when you're both sensitive, you can achieve a special harmony that's likely to add a closeness to your relationship that the two of you appreciate. When either of you isn't sensitive to the other -- for whatever reason -- that intimacy isn't likely to be present. Try to maintain your usual awareness when you're concerned that the other might not be understanding of your feelings. That extra effort on both your parts could count for a lot between you. YOUR ABILITY TO GIVE LOVE AND AFFECTION ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: Each of you has an affectionate side and can often be tender and admiring. You both frequently demonstrate an involved and caring approach. You're likely to be devoted to each other much of the time. On occasion, though, when you're not certain what kind of a reception you'll receive when you display your affections, the two of you are likely to hold back on your feelings. You may also limit the affection you give to each other because of some temporary concern about the other's willingness to respond. At these times, it would be worthwhile to discuss and resolve any dissatisfactions or misunderstandings that seem to be standing in the way. YOUR PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY ELIZABETH: In your sexual relations, you frequently choose to show your caring nature and your ability to be intimate. You want to display your affectionate feelings and receive similar tenderness in return. The intimacy generated by your sexual relations is important to you. The variety and excitement in sex is usually of much less consequence. At times, though, you may not feel comfortable in asking for what you want in sexual matters. You can get these needs satisfied at least some of the time, nevertheless, when you're willing to express them clearly. - 4 - RICHARD: You prefer a lot of closeness in your intimate activities. You usually emphasize the very tender side of your nature and particularly enjoy when that tenderness is reciprocated. Although some people are turned on by the newness and adventure often associated with sex, the intimacy you achieve is much more important to you. If you don't find it easy to discuss your sexual desires -- which may happen at times -- it may not always be apparent to others what you would like in this area. More often than not, though, when you can discuss your needs openly, you can frequently have what you want. ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: You both have similar desires in sexual matters. The two of you are usually capable of giving to one another -- as long as you each understand the other's needs. When one of you exhibits more interest than the other in having intimate relations, your affection for each other generally makes it easy enough to iron out the differences. The sexual part of your relationship, then, should provide the two of you with much satisfaction. The good feelings established here may help in resolving any difficulties that may be encountered in other areas. ********** H O W Y O U B O T H D E A L W I T H M O N E Y , B U S I N E S S A N D P O S S E S S I O N S YOUR ABILITY TO EARN A LIVING ELIZABETH: Your potential for significant achievement is certainly there. You have the ability to do well in business and to be amply compensated. You understand money and financial matters, and have excellent executive skills. If you can run your own firm or have a significant administrative position in someone else's firm, your needs in this area should be well satisfied. If you're not involved directly with business matters, you may put some of your management skill to good use in your avocations or your private life instead. - 5 - From your mid-thirties on, Elizabeth, you have a considerably better grasp of the use of your leadership ability and business skills than you displayed in your younger years. It'll be easier to initiate ventures, commercial or otherwise, and carry them to completion. There may be times, though, when a self-centered approach may work against you in business matters. There may also be times when you have to fight strong pressures attempting to keep you in a weak or dependent position. RICHARD: You have some innate business ability and a reasonable understanding of finances and commercial affairs. When you choose to concentrate on business matters, you can do quite well. With your other interests, though, you may frequently decide to use your business skills merely as an addition to your other capabilities. You may place your primary emphasis on the non- business side of your ventures. Richard, from about the age of thirty-five on, you'll know how to focus your business skills better than you did before. If you're aware of others and their needs, it will serve to open up more opportunities. ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: Elizabeth, your assertiveness, determination and strong motivation will be of great help in your business achievements. Your unique approaches along with your ability to work long and hard will also stand you in good stead. There's a fixity, though, Elizabeth, and an individualistic manner that sometimes goes along with your driving approach. They may, on occasion, alienate some of your colleagues and slow your own advance. You can make more of your business potential when you're more flexible and operate with a lighter touch. Richard, you also have good business ability but you aren't necessarily inclined in that direction. When you choose, though, to make use of these skills along with your unusual insights, you may produce good results. When you emphasize your individuality, it may come across, at times, in a dominating way that may irritate your associates. You can make more of your business potential when you're more flexible in dealing with the people around you. YOUR MUTUAL AMBITIONS ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: You're generally very ambitious, Elizabeth, and want a comfortable material life and all the good things that go with it. You're willing to exert a good deal of effort, no matter the risk, if the - 6 - return appears worthwhile. You can live with a great deal of strain in your life while you work for money, achievement or power. If you're not directly involved with business matters, Elizabeth, you're still likely to pay close attention to Richard's efforts in this area. You have ambitions, too, Richard, and also prefer a good material life. Your ambitions, though, are usually less pressing than Elizabeth's. You generally operate with reasonable plans, although, at times you're willing to tolerate a certain amount of strain in pursuing your material goals. At times the stresses that you're each willing to accept may place pressure on your relationship. You both may want to examine the returns you receive in some of these pressure-cooker situations and clarify whether the gains are worth the problems generated by the stresses. When you adopt a more balanced approach to material matters, Richard, most likely after you turn thirty-five to forty, it may help to diminish the level of pressure in your life. ********** W H A T Y O U C A N B O T H E X P E C T F R O M T H I S R E L A T I O N S H I P ELIZABETH AND RICHARD: The beauty and success of your relationship is partly dependent on these characteristics as well as the efforts the two of you are willing to make to more fully understand and appreciate each other. The significant interest that you both have in material possessions, financial affairs and business relations forms an important link between you. Richard, you also have a strong concern with people and people-centered activities. Along with your involvement in material ventures, Elizabeth, you may enjoy philosophical or spiritual activities. With these different approaches, there's likely to be a certain amount of give and take before you feel completely comfortable together. The differences in your personalities, though, may serve as opportunities to learn from each other's strengths. ********** ********** - 7 - P E R S O N A L D A T A BIRTH DATE: FEBRUARY 27, 1932 BIRTH NAME: ELIZABETH FRANCES TAYLOR CURRENT NAME: ELIZABETH TAYLOR BIRTH DATE: NOVEMBER 10, 1925 BIRTH NAME: RICHARD JENKINS CURRENT NAME: RICHARD BURTON SAMPLE FROM: INTIMACY LIMITATIONS OF THIS SAMPLE PRINTOUT: 1. Top and bottom margins, and page number placement are optimized in actual program for particular printer selected. - 8 -